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When Will My Dream Come True?

ARE YOU REALLY WAITING?
There’s a Time for Everything. Do you have the nerve to wait for it?

There’s a time a vision/assignment is given to a man but wait a minute…. There is a time for the vision/assignment to be concreted/fulfilled/achieved.
For instance:
Vision given: 1/1/2023
Maturity date: ?/?/? Weeks, months, or years.
The time is not known to man except for man to keep believing, hoping for the best, keep developing themselves, and keep watching and praying.
Inorderwords, there is a time for everything.
May God continue to give us the grace to keep waiting on Him till we see the fulfilment of those things that has been placed in our hands.
Time…..the tested and trusted healer.
And then….the vision is for an appointed time not your time. Because of this truth, you have got to wait for it.

Can You Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone?

WHAT IS HOLDING YOU BACK IN LIFE?
From breaking through.
From living the life you had always dreamt of.
From being with those you truly want to have around.
From laying hold of the miracles.
First of, where are you presently? Do you believe this is where you are truly meant to be?
Do you have the gut feeling that you are more than where life has placed you?
Do you feel stuck and sick of everything?
Frustrated! Frustrated!! Frustrated!!!
Remember the man who had a withered hand. (Mark 3:1-3). He was in this condition for years not because he didn’t want a healing but because he had been too comfortable with his situation. Comfortable with the circle of friends. Comfortable with his immediate environment. Comfortable with what life was throwing at him.
Comfortable indeed!
He didn’t received his miracle till he was told by Jesus to step forward.
STEP FORWARD!
Come out of your comfort zone; step away from the mindset that has paralysed your thinking and held you bound.
Break free from the faulty programming and conditioning of your immediate environment.
Leave behind what had been hindering you;
Leave behind the naysayers, the crowd which had been distracting you from focusing on the possibilities within.
Move out! Move away!
Come into the light.
Step into destiny.
Reach out for your healing.
Bade the past a goodbye
Forget the pain of yesterday and embrace the power of today.
Step out and reach the hand of God. The change you had been waiting for is here right now. You need not look far.
You only need to deconstruct the negativity.
A midshift is all you need.
Change only happen when you are ready to change.
All things are possible to anyone who believes.

Do NOT Give Up On Life Yet.

DO YOU STILL BELIEVE IN MIRACLES?

  • Lesson learnt from a flower in a garden*
    The beauty about life is that inspite of how things may have turned out for you and I.
    Inspite of the hopeless situation we may find ourselves.
    Inspite of what our yesterday had denied us from having today.
    Inspite of the conclusion people  arrived at simply because of what they had learnt about us.
    Inspite of every damn thing, Life is still kind to us.
    Life is still beautiful.
    Life still offers us hope again.
    Life still reminds us that, she had never given up on us even though we feel so often times.
    Life still brings her miracles at our doorstep.
    She tells us that:
    We must never give up on her.
    We must not accept what our past had told us rather we must choose to believe what our today reveals to us.
    We must learn to trust our instinct/gut feeling, perhaps our intuition for it knows right.
    We must not throw away what is in our hand yet even though it may look as if it isn’t useful anylonger. For if we can be patient for a minute, we can see a wonder come out from it.
    We must keep fanning the flame of our belief for it lies endless possibilities.
    Life tells us that:
    In what seems inconsequential, a dead matter; a forgotten issue; a dying situation; a positive event can still take place.
    Something good can show up any moment.
    In short, we must not conclude on Life yet, for miracles still abound.

Embrace Your Season In Life.

WHAT SEASON ARE YOU CURRENTLY IN IN LIFE?
We all have unique ways of how God is dealing with us. What phase are you in life right now? What season? Is it a season of spiritual awakening, personal development, child bearing, career transition/growth, building relationships/Networks,setting up new businesses, personal/business rebranding, or a family reunion? Whichever season it maybe, kindly allow yourself to pass through it and let it pass through you. Embrace it/them. Learn and relearn. Grow and be wise. Enjoy the moment it affords. Appreciate the experiences it brings along. Show gratitude to God for the season. Become a better and a truer version of yourself.
Change can only happen if you are willing to embrace change when it comes  knocking.

*Confession of Faith *

Dear Lord, I know you love me so much and care about me. You only want the best for me which is why you would stop at nothing to bring the changes that would lead me to the fulfilment of my purpose and your plan for my life. I therefore appreciate each phase I find myself in life. I embrace the lessons, enjoy the season, and joyfully become a better person than I used to be.

Are You Harnessing Your Gifts Enough?


Each one of us has all it takes to be who we were meant to be on this side of eternity. And all it takes is the gift-set innate of us.
Oftentimes, the voice within yearns for us to come to this realisation but the voices outside deafen us in so much as to make us believe all we need is out there.
The gift of a man will make room for him. (Proverbs 8:16 KJV). I couldn’t agree less.
So then, why are we still struggling in life? Why are we frustrated almost all the time because things aren’t working the way we wanted?
The obvious is, we are yet to identify with this truth.
Look within; ask questions; and look up for answers.
In other instance, God may direct someone in our space to reveal this potential to us even when we fail to recognise it. Don’t take it for granted.
The gift within and the one you acquired along the line will make room for you.
This gifting, when properly worked upon, will set the right table for you.
Suffice it to say that your spiritual gifts is part of it. You cannnot leave it dormant. Some of us have the gifts of discernment,gift of deliverance, gifts of healing etc. but we  may have chosen to let it lie inactive while we are all out to improve only the professional or business side of our gifts. All your gifts is meant to be in full use. You may need the gift of discernment in the ministry you belong to be able to spiritually guide others or show them what’s about to happen.
I know that, sometimes the environment we find ourselves can either hinder the gift or make it thrive. Other times, some may not want to believe in this gift. Be that as it may, when you are intuitive/ sensitive enough, you can know when to bring this gift into use or to allow it lay low.
When you are aware of what you carry(potentials), and you are using it to serve others purposefully, all you need to fulfill your life’s assignment will naturally gravitates towards you without struggle. Yes! I meant it because you are giving it power. You are making it to do its work.
All you need do is to recognize the potential, develop it by sharpening with other relevant skills. Be ready to embrace changes when they come. Learn the lessons challenges of life teaches you.(Because you need to have built capacity, competence, confidence, and character in the period of challenges. They will help you alot later in life). By allowing your intuition/spiritual antenna to guide you always, you will see the miracles which abound.
Do you know what you carry?
Listen to the voice of intuition.
Go ahead and be all you can. You have all it takes.

*Confession of Faith*

I believe all I need to fulfil purpose and destiny lies within me and by His Grace, I begin to manifest them. I maximize them and they are also serving me for God’s glory in Jesus Name. My gifts make room for me because it is God’s command and so it is In Jesus Name.

Who Are You In Love With?

WHO DO YOU LOVE MOST?
You love God
You love yourself
You love your neighbours (just about anyone God brings your path)


If you love God, be wise, draw more closer to Him. Know Him better. Build intimacy stronger than ever. Listen to His instructions. Understand His ways. Hold on to His promises.

If you love yourself, tell yourself so.
Take good care of you in and out. Protect and preserve the good relationships. Stick to your godamn values. Work on your self-esteem and self-worth. Mind your thoughts always. Forgive easily. Be less critical and judgemental. Envy not (envy less) rather see purpose behind people’s actions. Be your own greatest cheerleader. Treat yourself well. Be at peace at all times.  Be contented in life. Stay humble.

If you love your neighbours, show them you do. Make peace at all times.
Forgive easily. Understand and accept them for who they are. Pray for them (when your spirit  leads you to) even if seems a weird thing. Respect people. Reach out when they are in need. Allow others be. Honor and respect those older. Give people a chance.  Respect boundaries.

God first, you next and your neighbour right after.
You need God and your neighbour which is why you are in the middle. You are incomplete without God and you need people in your life for destiny and purpose sake. You can’t do it all alone.
Seek God’s face to send the right people you need for your life’s assignment.
Life can be so fulfilling when God is always first and the right people next in the boat with you.

*Confession of Faith*

Dear Lord, thank you for letting me know that I cannot do it all alone in life; that I am in this world to cultivate a relationship with you as my creator, to understand that I must learn to fall in love with myself over and over again; to ensure I build peaceful relationship with my neighbours so help me God.

How Can I Use My Gift In Life?

LET YOUR GIFTS OUT IN THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT
There is an environment designed for your gifts to thrive and rightly so.
Now, the gift lies within. Albeit, the potentials to make it in life is locked within.
And then, the struggle to birth these gifts increase by the day.
The support system seems far within reach.
How can we really maximize these gifts or potentials?
How crucial is the environment in the fulfillment of these gifts?
Yes! There is an environment that is prepared for these gifts.
Let’s use the apple tree as a case study.
Apple trees grow nearly in any hardiness zone, apples tend to thrive in climates where it’s cold in the winter, moderate in the summer and has medium to high humidity rather than a hot and dry climate. That’s where it is meant to thrive. This means it will barely survive in an environment other than this.
If you have all it takes to be fulfilled in life, but you are not in the right environment, receiving the appropriate nutrients for growth and development, just like the flower, you will experience a retarded or stunted growth. The chances of survival would be very slim because the adequate supply of all it needs to thrive is lacking or insufficient; because what’s inside is yearning for what’s bigger and the right environment to thrive
Now, the flower matures quickly; growing steadily  because it is sorrounded by the right opportunities like good soil,air,light,water. Suffice to say, a good environment.
Not all plants thrive in a particular environment; some do just fine in one environment than the other because that’s where they are truly meant to be.
You may be wondering why you are experiencing slow growth in your pursuits, perhaps, you need a reevaluation.
Maybe, you suddenly are beginning to pant for selfimprovement, your gut feeling may be right. It’s placing a demand on you. It is yearning for change and you need to give it the attention.
Take a pause today. If a change of environment is all you need inorder to see your gifts  fully maximized,go ahead and make it happen by the Grace of God, with prayer, personal development and self-improvement.
Your environment makes all the difference.
Remember, your gifts is meant to serve a purpose in your life and in the world. Allow it to thrive in the right environment.

How Do I Move On In Life?

WILL YOU TAKE A CHILL PILL TODAY?

Yes! We have been badly bitten.
Yes! We have been deeply hurt.
Yes! We have been deeply pained.
Yes! We have been outrightly misunderstood.
Yes! We have been betrayed severally.
Yes! Life had been unfair.
Yes! There seems to be no one out there to trust.
Yes! There seems to be no one out there who really loves back in the measure we had given out.
Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!
Can you step back a bit?
Can you take a chill pill?
Can you at least put yourself in other people’s shoes?
Most people are acting out some certain behavior according to the experiences life had thrown to them. Their behavior is the outcome of the lessons they had learnt.
Their outburst goes like this: ” Life has dealt me a hard blow; taught me to be this…. to be that so I’m going to treat others the same way I have been treated or been dealt with.” This is the vibe they give out unconsciously. But this ought not to be so. When we take this stance, we are been Reactive instead of been responsive; seeing things from a different perspective and understanding that we are no perfect anyway.
This may be the reason why we should not be too hasty to rule people out; to condemn, or to assume the judgement horse.
We may need to take the road less travelled(Robert Frost).

Inorderwords,
Be loving inspite.
Be considerate inspite.
Be tolerant inspite.
Be patient inspite.
Be understanding inspite.
Be humble inspite.
Let’s have a rethink. Let’s pause before we act.
Will you at least take a chill pill today?

Every Thing Has Its Time.

To everything under the sun….there is a time for it.

There is a time to talk and a time to be silent…

There is a time to want to be around people and a time to want to be alone…

There is a time to play and a time to get to work…

There is a time to love and a time to be loved back in return…

There is a time to give and a time to receive…

There is a time to sow and a time to reap…

There is a time to sit still and a time to rise…

There is a time to lead and a time to follow…

There is a time to spend and a time to save…

There is a time for others and a time for self.

There is a time to make money and a time to enjoy money…

There is a time to go on a ride and a time to take a walk…

There is a time to embrace and a time to let go…

There is a time to make friends and a time to make connections…

There is a time to purchase and a time to dispose…

There is a time for work and a time for family…

There is a time to eat and a time to fast…

There is a time to hoard and a time to share…

There is a time to win and a time to surrender…

There is a time for everything…

Wherever time has placed you today, kindly accept and maximize it for good.

Time…the tested and trusted healer.

How To Live A Life Well Lived

It is possible to live in this side of eternity and experience a life that is gratifying and fulfilling at the same time. Though, life challenges may show up as they often do. Be that as it may, when we make up our mind to align our actions with what is truly eternal, and purpose-driven, our lives will be thankful for it in the long run.

Stuffs happen, while majority may not be understood, but we can trust God to help us overcome them.

The truth is, we are created to enjoy sound health and sound mind and if peradventure, we may be facing one challenge or the other which is already hindering the flow of life’s bounties into our lives, here are few important checklist to address inorder to bounce back to life and begin enjoying it again. Before I begin, I like to let you know that we are created as complete human being and one aspect depend on the other. We cannot leave anyone behind else it suffers.

I like to address these four(4) key components that puts man as a complete being. The Spiritual aspect, The Mental aspect, The emotional aspect, and  The relational/social aspect.

1. Our Spiritual well-being: Our spirituality is as important as the blood circulating in our body. In every area of our lives, we need God. We need the help of the Holy Spirit to guide us. We need the angels to run errands for us. We need to be constantly in touch with our spiritual senses inorder to always align with what God has planned for us. We also need to be spiritually awakened inorder to know our true birthright; our identity; our true calling or purpose. To understand why some things happen and for what reason. We are not complete till we embrace our spirituality whilst also developing it in the place of prayer, meditation, reading the bible, reading spiritual journals and in worship both personal and congregational. Some of the challenges we face in life may only require us to be more in tune with our spirituality and that’s all. No hassles.

2. Our Mental Health: Wow! This is one aspect that cannot be ignored. Sometimes, what we term as physical sickness may not be it rather it is mental sickness. Mental sickness can however, result to physical sickness if not addressed quickly or properly. For instance, you may see a person looking pale and you ask them, “What’s wrong, are you okay?” And they respond, “Why not, I’m perfectly fine.” But truly, they feel fine but mentally, they may not. This is because mental illness strikes within. Your brain is the worst hit. You may be unaware that you are out of touch with reality. Your diet/ nutrition suffers, relationships wane,and you are just living life just for living. If you are suffering from mental illness, unmet expectations may be a cause, overthinking another, loss of a dear one, a cause, or the sudden breakup of a cherished relationship another. Other factors can contribute.

Sometimes, we may get ourselves imprisoned by our thoughts. We confess words like this, “I cannot let go of him/her.” “I will continue to hang on tight till my desire on the job or relationship become a reality. “My life cannot go on till we are together.” “I must win that game else!” These words, though casual, are powerful and can hinder the flow of blessings into our lives. They throw us in bondage.  They sap our energy, hinder our thought process from functioning well and make us mentally sick which can turn to a big health issue in the long run. Yes! God does not want us to be sick but it happens gradually with little actions of ours that are unhealthy.  You can choose today to break free from that negative pattern. That heaviness on your chest is a burden. Set your soul free and live a whole life.  Begin to confess the words that will edify you. Rephrase your words. Quit raising too much expectations on yourself, day -dream less, control wishful thinking, live in the present moment, watch your thoughts. What will be will be. No hassles please.

3. Our emotional wellbeing: What is the fuss about our emotions? Well, It is a big deal if you must know. Some of us are wired in such a way that our emotions often get the best of us almost every time and the result may turn out awful at the end of the day. We sit back and recount all that has transpired between us and the other party few hours or few days ago, and we just wished we can rebuild the wall that had been broken with how we allowed our emotions ruled our every actions now and then. Some of us have had treasured relationships torn apart as a result of our emotional instability. Also,we may struggle with finding balance in life if we struggle with emotional instability. It is an important aspect of our lives we must strive to build. I mean, when we can truly focus our energy on one vital thing and aim at result rather than to be here and there with nothing to show for it but to be frustrated and angry, is truly not worth it at all. If you are struggling with getting things done at the right time,you may be struggling with emotional issue. It is time to ask God for spirit-controlled temperament so that life can become easy to live in. It’s that simple!

4. Our relational/social life: If other aspects listed above are perfectly fine, I guarantee you that your relational life will be very beneficial. Why do I say so? For you to truly have great relationships  or social life, you may need to cross check with how spiritually you are grounded;and how stable you are both mentally and emotionally. If you satisfy the above criteria, you will be able to know how to handle or manage your relationships. Even if challenges show up, you already are fully matured to tackle them head on without fear. Perfect love cast out fear and Christ is the perfect love. Because you are in right standing with God, you make decisions out of courage and knowledge of who you are.

Inorderwords, if you truly desire to live a life well lived and in sync with purpose, you may want to embrace these four(4) cardinals. If you are whole inside out, other aspects that comes into your life will benefit from it. You are the most important factor here. Your life truly count and how well you live it matters to eternity.

In God alone, we are complete.